Titanic

So, as I'm drowning / freezing to death in the sea, with a cluster of unmoving lifeboats about 300 meters away... forgiving the people who inadvertently caused / did nothing to prevent my premature death would most likely not be what I was thinking about. But what I might be doing would be trying make peace with the circumstances of my death. I say this because I would not want to die cursing the people who failed to rescue me. I would want achieve some peace of mind / acceptance of my fate before I died (if I was coherent enough, that is).